The Safety Net

Within the dream we are dreaming, A Course in Miracles (ACIM) is clear that we have a safety net. We seldom see it that way as we feel trapped in a world of our making with no way out. Fear and guilt overwhelm us and we look to the words of the Course to elicit feelings of safety while completely misunderstanding where to find safety. The ego uses the reminders of the Truth from the Course so that we end up quoting them to ourselves and each other in an effort to feel good, prove we're right and extremely safe in a world of terror. This approach is an ego tick that negates the practice of true forgiveness.

When we're willing to recognize this world is not a happy place and we do not feel safe, our justifications with the ego get called into question during the practice of forgiveness. We find we're literally junkies who are addicted to excuses for what we're going with the ego; And since the ego can not allow forgiveness to reveal any ego trick, justification is a defense. Remember, a defense does what it says, ie, it defends (protects) and only what is weak uses defense due to the fear of lack or loss.

A reminder does what it says, ie, it reminds or points the way to something else in the mind. Reminders of the Truth from the Course point away from belief with the ego and towards (the meaning of) the Truth. This is a course on the practical application of forgiveness and the experience of the meaning of the Truth. It is not a course on faith and justification. The choice is yours in how you will use the Course.

A common example that most course students recognize is regard anger. Nowhere in the Course are we told we should not get angry. That would actually be unrealistic. We are simply told not to deny we're angry and to admit we are choosing to get angry. However, what we are told is not to justify the anger. Do not make excuses for why you are angry. It's never for the "justification" reasons you think.

Taking this basic concept, let's look into the ego trick of justification as a defense to keep the ego safe which we mistakenly believe is our safety. Once you understand the trick, it can be applied to undoing anything with the ego. In this article, we're going to expose the trick using the reminders of the Truth from the Course as those are also subject to justification.

Belief, Justification, Assurance and Defense

What makes it so difficult to recognize the ego is using justification with reminders of the Truth is because they seem so wonderful and that we want to believe them. They sound like the Holy Spirit is telling us they are true when it's really the ego tricking us into believing they are true. It brings down to the difference between a defense of the ego and a reminder from the Holy Spirit and the choice you make. There is a huge difference in the mind.

First, let's look at few basic concepts to further the discussion:

Belief

Choosing to believe in an unreal ego idea (thought) makes it appear real and so you only have to invest belief with the unreal to prove you are right. Continued belief (judgment) keeps the idea with you.

Justification

Justification means, "to show, prove or declare something is right." It is the reasoning used by the ego for believing the unreal idea.

Defense

Since all belief and justification is in the mind, defense is in the mind and it means, "an attempt to justify (prove correct) or to do something in favor of an action." The only action you can take in the mind is decision making. Choosing to justify a ego belief makes a defense. It protects the unreal belief as you're in total agreement with the ego and denial of the Truth.

Let's be really clear: The defense (belief plus justification) does not make what you are trying to believe true. It makes the belief (unreal) appear real. The meaning is still what you've chosen with the ego even when used to justify a reminder of the Truth.

Assurance

Assurance means, "to dispel doubts or a promise." There are two types of assurances: God or ego. The only guarantees the ego provides is what you're already experiencing and is clearly not working. Reminders of the Truth (God) point directly to the assurance (promise) of what is real. You choose which one sounds better and if it is the reminder, then you've got to get out of the justification trick.

The Separation Never Happened

We would not believe we're in this world unless we've already bought into the idea that we've separated from God. "The separation never happened" is the basic Truth reminder as part of the Atonement in the Course. It does, however, get used by the ego as a defense to negate the practice of forgiveness.

Justification of the reminder is the ego defense strategy. If we rephrase "the separation never happened" to the ego version, the trick of justification begins to expose itself: "Because the separation never happened, as the Course says, you are justified and correct to believe it did not happen." Honently looking reveal that we just explained why our belief that "the separation never happened" is correct using our "because" excuse (justification) with the ego. Again, this is not a Course on faith or justification as that further the ego and hides what the Truth reminder is pointing towards (which in this case is part of the Atonement, the solution). One mistaken belief leads to the next. Not far behind are the justifications as to "why" you are safe and still at home with God (other Truth reminders) in this world.

The Safety Net

Remember, this is a course in the obvious. The safety net can not be found in belief which defends the ego. It is only in those reminders of the Truth in the Course. Those do not require belief. Truth is not an idea. It's reality.

All reminders of the Truth, which are so lovingly pointed out to us in the Course, are there to do exactly what a reminder does: Remind us that we have reality (Truth) to catch us if we make a different choice. This does not mean to choose to "bliss out" on these assurances through ego belief. Rather, it means to consider them the explanations for why it is safe to practice forgiveness and obtain the experience of the Truth (which needs no defense).

Consider the rest of the Course another set of loving explanations for what you are choosing to give up (forgive). The light of Love shines brightly enough for the safety net to be obvious to anyone willing to look at their ego and forgive.

Defenselessness

To the ego, defenselessness is seen as weakness and yet to see the safety net, you will need to stop defending the ego. The justification junkies we all are is merely a mind addiction from wanting to be right instead of happy. However, now you know that justification of belief merely defends the ego; And now you have the trick exposed to apply to anything in your life.

Defenselessness (not defending the ego) is true strength because it relies on the Father where the Truth reminders point to remembrance of Him. To head in that direction in the mind, you must first accept that you've already chosen with the ego and will continue to do so as you learn forgiveness. You are going to get upset and angry. Do not defend (justify) that anger. Also, accept that you've been trying to believe your way to the Truth instead of practicing forgiveness of the beliefs (judgments) which leads directly to where the reminders point. Do not defend (justify) the trick even if you feel guilty or angry (do not justify them). Every time you accept responsibility for anything as being your choice, even when you've chosen to believe with the ego, you have the ability to choose differently because you are not justifying it which is protecting the ego.

What you are believing with the ego is what you are forgiving. The Father has provided the safety net but it's your decision to use it or not. The Truth reminders point where to look in the mind for the safety net and how to forgive. Forgiveness leads directly to the meaning in the Course that safety is in defenselessness. Forcing faith merely reinforces the ego. That's not true bliss and not the safety net.

Embedded DVR

In most surveillance operations using a DVR, the commonly used method is to link the DVR card to a computer containing the software. This has serious limitations in the event of a virus attack or power failure, because the surveillance system could have thrown off gear. In order to overcome these problems, a new type of DVR called the "embedded DVR" has been launched.

The embedded DVR works with very little or no help from the computer. It is a plug and play meaning that installation is very easy and recording can start as soon as the device is installed. Embedded DVRs can support 4-16 cameras, and a television screen can be added for viewing live pictures. Embedded DVRs provide all the features that come with computer based DVR systems including network support options that allow you to share the recorded data. The motion of the camera can be controlled based on motion and playback and search option are also available.

Embedded DVRs can be programmed to record at specific times. With an alarm facility available, fast detection of any intrusion can be detected. On integration with a web server, remote audio / video monitoring and recording is facilitated. Data storage is usually in MPEG format. If there is a problem with storage, a back up plan is activated where the data is written onto CD disks. Embedded DVRs also have remote storage facility meaning storage of information can be done at a location away from where the input device is located. This can minimize data pilferage or theft.

Embedded DVRs are now used extensively in the transport sector. Specifically developed embedded DVRs have in built features like impact resistance, shock & vibration resistance are now found in trucks, school and city buses, airport shuttles, cars, taxis, etc. These DVRs are compact and take inputs provided by camera located in different parts of the vehicle. It can also provide the driver with a view of the road and / or passengers at all times. In such a system, the storage device is often a replaceable hard disk drive. In some cases, a USB mobile hard disk enclosure is also provided. Use of DVRs in public and private transport devices can increase the security of passengers and cargo.

With enhanced emphasis on security, embedded DVRs have become an irreplaceable component of industrial and corporate security systems. In the near future, the embedded DVRs may find new applications many areas. The full potentials of this device are still to be realized and it may not be a surprise to see them used by everyday people for everyday living.

5 Advantages Of A Rugged Monitor And How You Can Make Full Use Of It

The term rugged might be a known term for everyone, but "Rugged Monitors" is not so common. The following article contains information about the rugged monitors plus what advantages and disadvantages they provide to their customers or clients.

As the technology is advancing time to time, all portable computing gadgets are turning out to be tougher and rougher constantly. As consumer gadgets get littler they practice as a matter, of course, must be intended to be tougher. There are many different kinds of names you will see, namely minicomputers, UMPCs, ultra-mobiles, handhelds, and PDAs. In brief terms, two of the most critical parts of owning a rugged tablet are its adaptability and portability. Rugged portable PCs give you the capacity to work in a wide assortment of conditions and situations. In the event that your work obliges you to work on the outside, in a certain climate, or in other cruel conditions, then you usually will like the upsides of going with the rugged monitors.

Rugged monitors are in fact more expensive than their convertible or its spare parts, so there would be wise to be sufficient elements to legitimize its cost.

Apart from these two core benefits, more advantages of owning a rugged monitor are:

Portability

The portability of the rugged screen, intended to meet the requests of specialists who need to utilize their PC while standing up and conveying it to different areas, is the thing that makes it emerge contrasted with portable laptops.

The appeal of this element is upgraded by variety elements and inherent segments that can be found in the vast majority of these gadgets. Models of rugged screens can shift in size, with some being as little as 5.3 "x 8.5" x 0.85 "and as light as 1.2 pounds, making them the perfect hand-carry gadget.

Longer product life span

Considering its sturdiness, a rough screen guarantees a more drawn out life expectancy, since it can withstand extreme circumstances. This incorporates having a full IP-65 rating to ensure against dampness and earth. Subsequently, of its fast drive and durable development, it can likewise withstand stun in extra working conditions.

Different models of screens have a higher rate of being failed contrasted with tough tablets, making the last perfect for the individuals who rely on upon a functional PC in the field or in harsh situations.

Efficient and clear screens

A rough screen works well in poor visual conditions on the grounds that the show innovation can change in accordance with the circumstance. Be it a moist environment or a dry and flaming desert area, you can be sure that a rugged screen will have a reasonable show screen to satisfy your on-the-spot portable innovative needs.

We all know that if a thing has some advantages, then it must have some disadvantages as well.

Resolution

Every monitor has a settled pixel determination design determined at the season of fabricating that can not be changed. All other picture resolutions require rescaling, which for the most part results in critical picture degradation, especially for fine text and design. For most applicationsought to just be utilized for the local determination of the board. In the event that you require fine content and representation at more than one determination do not get an LCD show.

Interference

LCDs utilizing a simple information require watchful alteration of pixel following / stage keeping in mind the end goal to decrease or kill advanced clamor in the picture. Programmed pixel following / stage controls typically deliver the ideal setting. Timing float and jitter may require visit rearrangements in between the day. For some pictures and videos, you will most likely be able to view high-quality ones.

White Saturation

The splendid end of the LCD power scale is effectively over-burdened, which prompts to bad color and saturation. At the point when this happens, brightness at its maximum happens before achieving the maximum of the gray scale or the brightness increments typically close to the most extreme. Requires cautious change of the Contrast control.

The bottom line can be that although rugged monitors are not used in one's daily life, but they sure come handy in places where the situations are tough. A person can make full use of the rugged monitors where the level of weather and condition uncertainty is quite high. Although they are a bit expensive, but they come in handy.

The Hotwife Lifestyle – 3 Secrets to Make It Work!

For many couples the Hotwife lifestyle is a marriage saver – something you might find counterintuitive considering the pain, anguish and trouble infidelity typically causes in a marriage. But the …

Hotwife Lifestyle

Is NOT the same as ordinary infidelity.

Let me explain – when someone has an 'affair', it usually means they're doing it behind the other's back. And that means there's something very wrong between them for that to happen.

But a woman being a hotwife is different – because it's done not only with her husband's consent and full knowledge … but usually she's doing it with his approval and urgent!

Now, to many men and women, that's going to make them throw their arms up in horror. And that's OK – because no one is suggesting anyone does anything they do not want to do.

But the fact is, having a hotwife is many a man's hottest fantasy – and his real problem is often stated that: " how can I get my wife to sleep with other men without her thinking I'm strange, kinky, or plain not In love with her any more? ".

And it's a good question because the kneejerk reaction from many women is a feeling of loss and almost abandonment; Indeed, many of them think the man is asking her to do it so he can then take another partner – but the truth is most men do not want this at all. What they want is their wives to include them in the hotwiving, to the extent they might want to watch, listen, hear all about it or even join in.

Yet, it's still not without its potential problems, especially in the early days. So, with that in mind, drawing on my own experience as a husband to my own hotwife these past 7 years, here are three tips to help make things go more smoothly:

  1. Always put your partner at the # 1 position . By this I mean it's vital you see a clear distinction between a sexual partner and a relationship . If there is ever any pressure from her lover to exclude the man in any way, then the ground-rules must clearly and unambiguously see the marriage as the most important thing. In other words, the lover has to go!
  2. Do not expect the "same stuff" . As a man, there's no mileage in worrying about what she might be doing for or with him that she does not do for or with you. It's not a competition and everyone's got different likes and dislikes, and every couple's sexual dynamic is also different. The thing to focus on is are you getting what you need, and forget what the other guy is getting.
  3. Either of you must be able to say 'stop' . Things change, and so do people. So it's important that either one of you has the power of veto, both over an individual man as a potential lover, a situation or event, or even the whole hotwife lifestyle. It's a recipe for disaster to have a situation when the man feels uncomfortable about the guy she's taken as a lover, and she, in effect, tells him that's "hard luck".

If you can follow these three simple guidelines, then the hotwife lifestyle might be right for you. But, be careful about your sources of information. It IS a potential minefield, and it pays to tread carefully. My wife, Josselyn, and I have been in the lifestyle for the past 7 years and apart from a few hiccoughs it's been a lot of fun.